Frustration! Brain, start WORKING

Perseverance

I am really, really having a hard time getting motivated to think.

You know – – when you spend all week thinking, and studying, and reading, and writing and teaching, all week long thinking. And I have a looming due-date for chapter 1 and jeez – it’s not going to write itself.

Maybe if I get up off the sofa and go upstairs and sit at the computer and just start reading and working…maybe my brain will respond. I know this is how students feel too. We are all human, and it’s hard to keep going every day – sometimes you just want to take a mental break. Venting. I can see that this is the part where many PhD candidates lose their drive. You have to somehow get through these times of frustration and just push through.

I’m going to force myself upstairs, and going to open up a work source notes page, am going get Easybib.com going, and am going to read a few articles. But really – – It’s the last thing I feel like doing right now. In fact, I don’t feel like doing anything. There’s laundry to be done, dishes to wash, plans for school to make…

Hopefully I’ll have better news later today.

The Last Days of 2012 with Great Friends and Family

botany bay

botany bay (Photo credit: fo.ol)

 This year, as we did for the past two, Todd, Jake, and I went to see our best friends Lani and Mike. Sometimes we go to their lake house on Lake Murray, SC. This time, we went to a picturesque mansion in Charleston – we’re talking 5 bath, many beds, dock, little boat house, etc. Lani and her family used it the week before Christmas but we were invited for the New Year. Thanks Lani!

For this post, I’d like to display some of my favorite pictures and perhaps tell a story or two about them. I hope you will connect with something here. These past few days have meant so much, and I did just what I asked readers to do in my Christmas letter: Anything I wanted. That feels so good!As I was taking pictures I couldn’t help but feel frustrated at my lack of photography skills. I wished I had Patrick Latter or Seth Snap with me (I hope you guys will check this out because you’ll see the potential in Charleston…maybe you’ll even travel there to take some photos!).

The pictures I show here are ones at the “big house” and on the dock, out in the front yard, and at Botany Bay.  Botany Bay was incredible. Although I’ve been there once before, my son wasn’t with me so he didn’t have the opportunity to see these new sites. So I got to experience it all through his eyes.

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People decorate dead trees and branches with the beautiful shells (you aren’t allowed to take any).

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There were a myriad of oddly shaped trees, branches, tree-trunks – – all strewn on the beach like the aftermath of some horrific apocalyptic event. Any yet, the stark beauty was breathtaking, and all the shells gave each tree a new life. As I’d find a “special” shell I would try to discover just the right spot to place it. How many people before me have done the same? With the same shell?

My son gets tired of being the subject of photos, but reluctantly agreed to a few...

My son gets tired of being the subject of photos, but reluctantly agreed to a few…

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He loved choosing his own special shells to place “just so”. As I was walking along the ocean, staring out into the endless depths of the Atlantic, I couldn’t help but wonder the stories that have unfolded on this beach. Who got engaged here? Who had a first date here? Who brought kids here, had picnics here, broke up here?

You walk down this LONG path in what appears to be the middle of nowhere. Then - OCEAN.

You walk down this LONG path in what appears to be the middle of nowhere. Then – OCEAN.

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The best thing about this beach is the array of shells. Since it is against the law to take shells off the beach, you find so many fantastic ones that would normally have been picked away!

Lani (my BFF from college – we went to The University of South Carolina in the early 1990’s) or better known as “Aunt Lani” to Jake, comes here all the time. Her husband’s family is from the Charleston area, and I feel lucky that she’s introduced me to such beauty just a few hours from Atlanta.

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Aunt Lani and Jakey

 But enough of Botany bay. Let me share some of the fantastic pictures from the house. It was just lovely.

The house, on Lottie Pope road in Edisto Island, was hard to find. I swear, we drove through so many twisty-curvy roads that seemed to lead to nowhere. Then, around one more turn, was this beautiful home. The front yard was massive – a U-shape lined with majestic trees. Perfect for an impromptu game of baseball (which we did the next day).

Of course we didn’t need as much space as the house provided, but boy is it nice to go upstairs to your suite with a balcony! 🙂

One of my favorite features of the house is the pool room/library. My son is now a pool fanatic (although based on the look in this picture you’d think he hates it).       

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My favorite spot: Deck. Water. Book.

My favorite spot: Deck. Water. Book.

Jake in the front yard. I loved tree climbing and so does he. :-)

Jake in the front yard. I loved tree climbing and so does he. 🙂

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I took many sunset pictures. I had to because we were right there each night on the dock, and each sunset was different. That first night (Saturday) provided me with what I consider my best pictures.

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Well, I am quite exhausted from several days of just having fun. So I’ll end this blog here by saying that we all have to get out, see friends, appreciate and love our family, and just do what we want to do!

I wish you all a Happy New Year!

A Jamison Christmas Letter: From Me to You

 

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Dear Family and Friends,

I am lounging on my well-worn sofa. The TV is on, Kitty is sitting on top of my papers, the tree is bright with those old-timey bulbs, Jake is playing a video game upstairs on his Xbox Live, Todd is cooking spaghetti, and I am writing this letter.

What makes today different? Today was the last day of this fall semester and this month marks the end of 2012. For that, I am thankful.

When you think back to your 2012 experiences, what stands out in your mind? What would you write about in a letter? I am not one to write Christmas letters; usually I just send one of those cards, but my husband insisted that I write this. I secretly suspect that he is in competition with the fantastic letters our relatives write each year; but of course, I won’t tell him this.

Nothing is better than lounging by the water and reading a great book.

Nothing is better than lounging by the water and reading a great book.

I’ll be brief with our family news, because I’d rather hear back from all of you. In Jan. 2012, the Jamison family started their year off with some fantastic folks – the “Columbia Crowd” (Lani, Mike, and everyone from USC). We went to a Charleston beach house and hung out with several long-time friends: we played pool, fished, cooked (well the other ladies cooked. I ate.) We hung out at the pier, took long walks on the beach, read books on the dock, and did whatever we wanted to do. The picture to the left shows me doing what I wanted to do, which was lounging at the dock reading the Outlander Series.

The above leads me to request something very important of you: as we continue the all-too-short holiday season, it is important to remember to take at least one day to do whatever the heck you want to do. You deserve it.

Now, to sum up 2012 in a series of sentence fragments: Birthdays: 41. 50. 10. A new business partner for Todd. Comprehensive PhD Exams; a “High Pass” for Elizabeth. Summer of All-Stars, All-Skate and White-Water for Jake. Fishing and relaxing at Lani and Mike’s Lake. Kelly and Rory’s beautiful wedding. The Lodge in Madison, South Dakota, where they will make you nachos even after they’ve “closed”. Successfully defending my dissertation prospectus on Dec. 6, (this means I move forward and can finish my PhD after starting in 2008. Just have to write the actual dissertation!). I don’t know how long it will take in reality, since I am starting all over with research; however, I know that if I apply myself I can do it. I am hoping to become Dr. Jamison by Fall, 2013.

What are you working on this year? What new goals have you decided to create and complete?

These are just a few of my goals. Mostly, I just want to keep it together!

These are just a few of my goals. Mostly, I just want to keep it together!

Jake, who turned 10 on Nov. 7, 2012, is a study in contradictions. Nevertheless, I couldn’t be more proud. He and I seem to share the same twisted sense of humor, which makes morning trips to school fun. He’s in that phase now: “ to play baseball and commit, or to not and sit?” Seriously – – I love going to his games, but sometimes he’s just not into it. The paradox is that while he’s not always into it mentally, physically, he gives his all at every single game. I have to respect that. He’s a very talented athlete and the best 10-year-old player in the Acworth Mustang Division. You may be thinking, “Aw, that’s just “Proud Parent Speak”…I assure you that he’s pretty darn good.J

I love playing catch with him outside our house. When I don’t feel like expending the energy, I watch Jake and his Dad play. That’s almost just as fun – – maybe more. Jake has also demonstrated his athleticism at the roller rink. I swear, we go there at least once a week. I work; he skates and plays video games. I research; he drinks a Coke and skates some more. It’s a good system. I think I’ve written just about the last two years of my research papers there.

The lesson here: Parents, roller rinks are good.

Jake has also done something that has shocked us in a good way. He has taken up reading, and not just part-time. He loves it. He has read the entire 22-book Warriors series, the Harry Potter series through book 4, the Diary of a Wimpy Kid Series,

The logo of the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series.

The logo of the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

and now he’s reading the Percy Jackson series. Some may be reading this and thinking, “No wonder, his mom’s an English teacher”. No…I didn’t read to him that much; in fact, when I get home from my teaching, the last thing I feel like doing is more work. Todd was the one who read to him, and then Jake just started reading on his own. I am so thankful.

Speaking of Todd, we are so proud of him for keeping his business going and growing! With this shi*$% economy we all know that it’s hard, to say the least. Todd has an office in Acworth, GA, a new partner, two employees, and an admirable docket of on-going and upcoming projects. For that, I am thankful and he is miserable. Just kidding, kind of.J.

My job at Harrison High School is going well. I love my students (but I must say the freshmen were CRAZY these last few weeks). I am lucky to work in such a good school. Possibly the highlight of our semester was our Casserole day. Each student brought a homemade casserole to the class. It felt like Thanksgiving.

So, what I really want to know is how are you doing? What’s going on in your life? Please email me at elizjamison@gmail.com or reach me at my blog at http://dissertationgal.com and keep me updated on your contact info and on your life. Life is too short to lose track of friends and family.

Hey—Have a Fantastic Christmas and New Year 2013. We are going back to Charleston to have another peaceful stay with our friends. I hope you have something fun planned and that you are taking time out for you.

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Elizabeth, Todd, Jake, Mitchell, and Kitty

What to do when you don’t have time for Holiday shopping.

I don’t know about you, but as a teacher, mom, wife, and PhD candidate, I have absolutely NO time to shop for Christmas presents. I am also sick of the trite presents I find on basic store sites. I was looking for something a little different, something unique that would really make an impression.

My students would LOVE this! SO CUTE.

I found it in Thirty-One products. My friend Michelle sells them (she always has a great deal going) and so I thought I’d share with all my busy friends. By the way, this is totally sharing and not for any money. I am in no way linked to the Thirty-One organization; I’m just helping people lower those stress levels.

So check out the info below and do all your shopping in about ten minutes. You won’t regret it.  I have ordered Thirty-One products from her in the past, and let me tell you, it has made my life so much easier. I’ve handled wedding gifts, Christmas gifts, and even random gifts (of course I had to get a few things for myself!) in literally minutes! That beats the crowds and the malls, doesn’t it?

I bought this for my MALE cousin for his wedding gift. I put his and her initials on it. It was AWESOME and classy. The perfect gift for a guy.

SHE IS OFFERING A GREAT DEAL FOR THE HOLIDAY SEASON!

She is offering anyone who makes a purchase of $100.00 before shipping and tax the chance to win one of five fabulous prizes:

 1-URU wristlet

2-inspiration scarf

3-Pocket-a-tote (Otherwise unavailable until January, is it a clip-on zipper pocket that fits our large utility tote as well as our medium utility tote.)

4-$10.00 gift certificate to Thirty-one

5-$25.00 gift certificate to Thirty-one

How awesome is this bag? I want one for my son’s baseball team!!!

 Just for shopping with her for your holiday needs you can win free merchandise or gift certificates!  They also have a great customer special running right now.  For every $35.00 purchase you make you can buy a medium utility tote for only $5.00 (a $30.00 value).  This tote will only be available for a limited time. they have a limited edition Holiday Print called snowmuchfun.  See attached flyers. 

    To qualify for the prizes  either call or email Michelle with your order or put it in on her website at http://www.mythirtyone.com/michellecappucci  and shop through her party “Michelle’s Holiday Shop“.

Don’t hesitate to call her with any questions at (770) 864-3816.

I love to mix and match the color of the bags and text. So Cute!!!